Been talking to this guy for a little under month.. He claims to be shyish, tbh I believe him. He's only initated conversation once, but I really like him. He quite the catch.. He's never mentioned anything about possibly meeting up, granted its only been a month. Should I take the initative? It'd be nice to see mutual attraction.. But idk!!
Is it a turnoff if a girl takes initiative? Will it look desperate? :-(
Most Helpful Guy
I have used Tinder and POF for 99% of my dating since my divorce. I think both work well. but why would you be chatting for a month without going out? I once chatted with someone for over 2 weeks before we could get a free day to meet. it didn't go further then the 1 date. I will chat with someone for 1-3 days depending on how much I am chatting. If it is a few hours a night then 1 or 2 days then i ask her to meet. if it is just a few texts here and there, then say 3 days. but you should meet sooner rather then later. Until you know if there is any chemistry it is pointless. I have had a number of women where, on paper, we were the perfect match. but in person it just didn't work out.1
Most Helpful Girl
It's good that you take initiative. Some guys don't mind and like it and some don't. But it's good to try anyway. You should if you really like him.3