So the guy I have been talking to for a month and today he send me a text saying "Hey I know you are not up, but Happy Birthday" I replied back saying "aww thank you and a wink face" and he respond saying Np. and about 15 minutes I replied back to him asking if he wants to hang out today? he responded saying "was in class, I don't know maybe. People coming to do the windshield this afternoon not sure what else is going on yet. I understand about the windshield since last week he hit a deer but Long story short I told him to let me know if he wants to hang out and he said ok will do, asking me what time I get out of class and I let him know. But the thing is I feel like he doesn't want to hang out with me, he is the type of guy that goes with the flow and doesn't plan anything but still I do not want to use that as reason why he doesn't want to hang out with me. I just need advice if I am overthinking about this whole thing. Because I want to hangout with him on my Birthday. If it matters our my age is 24 and his age is 33.
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Sounds like he is having a pretty full day. I'm sure he wants to spend time with you but his mind may be preoccupied with the other things going on. Especially with the windshield repair that could take awhile and he probably doesn't want to get your hopes up if it turns into a big mess and he can't make it.1