My problem is that I just don’t know how to talk to women at all. As a result, my only interactions with women have been of a friendship basis, never romantic. I never allowed myself to feel anything more than that because: 1) I was convinced no one would want a fat, ugly loser like me; and 2) I was scared of being vulnerable. I did fall in love with a girl when I was 22 but didn’t date her because she wasn’t interested in dating me (trust me, I tried my best, I really did). I’ve always felt like the odd one out, and as each year passes it seems to further diminish any romantic confidence.
I know I’ve got love in me and much to share, but I don’t know how to find someone to share it with. I’m very good friends now with someone whom I would love to date and think the world of, but I’m afraid I’ve already fallen into the “friend zone” with her. I’m also convinced that no girl would want a guy my age with absolutely no experience. It's really embarrassing. Even something as simple as kissing is foreign and scary for me. I have tried online dating too, by the way, and that didn’t go well.
Is it time to become a priest and live a life of celibacy?
Most Helpful Girl
Are you kidding me? First off I would probably date you BECAUSE you are your age and have no experience. There are a lot of women who like... I don't know how else to put this, innocence? I generally don't date because I don't like how everyone has been around so much. I know it sounds mean but yeah.
Honestly, don't panic bro. Age is just a number, and you'll get around to it when you'll get around to it. Don't rush things, who cares if you're at a different pace? No one is better than you. If you like a girl, let her know. That's the risk you got to take. You'll find your way.
Most Helpful Guy
Improve on yourself. If you are out of shape exercise. Learn some new talent. I'm happy with my life but I continue to try and improve myself. Hell my summer goal this year is to teach myself the piano (I won't be a pro but I'm gonna bust my butt practicing every day).
Make something of yourself and gain some confidence.