Well I said in my online profile in a dating website that I was llooking for casual sex and/or a short or long term relationship. I talked a lot about sex with the guy, we even shared intimate details, and he knows I like sex and that I've had casual sex with a few people.
The thing is that when I met him for the first time it really clicked. We are very similar in many aspects and we talked for hours (also about sex). We met a second time, and we also talked for a very long time and he kissed me before saying goodbye.
When we text, we talk a lot about sex, and he's pretty much into getting inside my panties. But we also talk about other things. Great sense of humour and many things in common.
Now I don't know what to do! I'm not exactly looking for a very serious relationship, but I'm afraid of having casual sex with him and getting hurt, since what I feel for him is more than physical. I think he mostly wants to have sex but he also seems to have connected with me at another level too. I was thinking of letting things flow to see what's on his mind. Analyse if he tries too hard to get physical with me... or if he's just happy to hang out with me and talk?
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You gotta wait for him to catch up to your emotional level. You haven't even gone on the third date yet and I would say your feeling the honeymoon period with him... who knows? it might wear off or it would progress into something more.
I wouldn't really bother about putting it all out there on the table and give him an ultimatum. I'll just take things as it comes on the third date. If your feelings grow stronger then you might want to talk about it and let him know what you really feel. If he doesn't feel on the same level as you... and he doesn't want to speak more about it... That is the answer shown to you right there.0