- I would not date anyone who was any of those things
- I would date someone who were those things
- Other (explain)
Most Helpful Girl
Oh my gosh... I'm reading through all of these responses and it's really annoying me how selfish people can be. OF COURSE i would date a guy like that. I have before and I'd do it again. Sure it's crazy stressful and scary. But, it's worth it to be there for them and help pull them out of it. The guy I dated is now one of my closest friends. We broke up over the summer, but he REALLY opened up to me while we WERE dating and even some after we broke up. He;s told me countless times that if I hadn't been willing to date a "suicidal, depressed nobody" then he probably wouldn't be alive today. Have some compassion people. Be a friend. Be there when your friends need you and stop focusing on how comfortable or uncomfortable YOU are with the situation.
Most Helpful Guy
Difficult question. Depends on how severe it is. I probably wouldn't be able to put up with the drama that comes from being suicidal, and I probably wouldn't hang around if the person keeps cutting. There are so many different ways to cope with stress! Seeing yourself bleed and risking infections is NOT the smartest one of them.
Depressed? Well, that depends on whether I even notice.
Hell, I don't even know if I'm depressed.