So now we're going out, but we're still shy with each other and it does get quiet. I mean, we aren't shy when we start kissing and making out as there's a definite physical connection, but i've noticed there's this tension when we aren't and it does get quiet. We have a lot of things in common, so it's not like we're complete opposites. We're each other's first relationship, so things are new and awkard to us so how can i become more comfortable and at ease with him? I still get shy even holding hands in public (we hold hands regardess), but
things like initiating a kiss is still not easy unless we just finished watching a movie and are in a dark room haha
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Sounds like things are going well. If you want things to go a little faster or happen more often the best way to make that happen is to let him know how you feel. Odds are he is feeling the same way but is nervous that he might scare you away by going too fast! Let him know how you feel about everything and he should tell you the same and everything will develop in a stable manner and build into a more solid relationship.