Girls, Is there something wrong with me that makes it to where no one wants to date me?
What Girls Said 7
I don't think there's something wrong with you. Actually I don't know what you think seems wrong. You just seem like a mature guy who instead of trying to be a famous b-ball player that girls die for, you just want to be a simple pastry chef who would be happy with a nice girl with nice traits and that stuff. I actually haven't met a whole lot of mature boys, not because something's wrong with them, but because almost all boys that I meet are immature. Being a protector of girls, in my opinion, is AWESOME because sometimes you just need a knight in shining armor that can help you out of situations. Violins are awesome. I used to play one but I dropped out because music isn't my thing. I love Say Something and I prefer listening to calm music like it instead of horrible rap music that you can barely understand what the singer's saying.
I think you're perfectly fine. I just don't think any girls have found out how great you are yet. It's ok, you'll definitely find someone (I'm not trying to sound like those people that just say 'youll be fine, its all good' but I know you'll find someone). Best of luck. :)0
You sound like a pretty cool guy! Protectiveness is one of the things I find most appealing in boys, you know, making a girl feel safe. Maturity too, definitely maturity, which is hard to come by when you're still young. Unfortunately, kids are dumb and they like to make fun. If there were any guys like you where I am, I'd be head over heels for him.0
I agree with MaddieSouthpurple. At your age, girls don't really know what they want quite yet and so they'll have a tendency to lean more towards the 'bad' end of the boy spectrum if that makes sense. They'll come around eventually. Don't worry about it, I'm sure the right girl for you is out there, but you just have to let time do it's thing! :)1
Nope! Nothing's wrong with you. I felt the same way for a while, but it's really once you start getting confidence in yourself that you'll become the best person you can be! I'm gradually becoming more confident in myself and other people notice that! Plus, it makes me have such a better outlook on everything. :)0
It could just be that they find you TOO mature; girls under 18 don't have a firm grasp on what they want after all. Or, perhaps you come across as too overbearing.0
I don't this there is anything wrong with you! To be honest there should be more guys like you.0
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