You have been together with your SO for quite some time now. You two haven't discussed each other's sexual past in detail but they have said that the number was no bigger than 5 - all within relationships. What if one day they come clean and reveal that they have actually slept around a lot?
What do you do?
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My main concern would be why they felt the need to lie to me. I wouldn't be upset if my partner had slept with more than 5 people or had sex outside of relationships.
I suppose I would be upset that they thought I would be judgmental and wouldn't accept them, but I would also feel bad that their experiences had led them to feel that way.
We'd need to have a conversation about the lying, but it wouldn't be a dealbreaker to me.3