but as time went buy my self confidence and self esteem gradually went down hill...
he always had a thing for blondes and Swedish girls I never had a problem with it uptill he started giving me less time and working more... and comments on girls pictures who are Swedish and telling them they are hot/attractive / that they are past pretty... we had arguments over this him telling me its nothing to feel bad about, he even stood me up on valentines day didn't even give me a card or show up although I was dressed at my best and waiting for him...
I asked him if he thought blondes were prettier than me he said some are and told me to get over it then I asked I his ex was prettier he said " no she isn't, happy now? " I felt heart broken... he tell me I'm gourgouse, pretty or whatever but I feel so unwanted...
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Because he is trying to route your female hypergamy so you won't leave him. Ever heard the term monkey branching. It is where a female moves onto a new relationship with a guy she feel is better than her boyfriend/lover/partner without any care of the amount of sacrifice/history they have spent together.
Guys who act sweet and nice and tell their girl is beautiful, give her gift and treat her like a queen usually end up getting cheated on or girl dumping him.
Guys who call treat their women like shit, tease them and make them think they should be happy to be with them because they are the best they will ever get tends to have women who are loyal and love them.
This is just how F up female brains work. Before anyone even says "not all women ar elike that". Sure i concede here, but majority are.
Source: Real first hand experience of multiple men from all across the world expressing their relationship experience.
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