Most of my life I've been socially confused and even after marriage I still do not understand what the deal is here! Women expect men to put themselves out there and take the first steps and take the lead in all relationships increasing the chances that men get rejected by at least 75%. I would to know why? What makes this a justified and acceptable practice within a society in which women have complete control over men and the relationships they are in? Have women just become that selfish and controlling in our society? I'm not sure what else to conclude!
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Its tradition and girls just like it. It makes them feel happy and worth more than if they made the first move. But of course, girls can still make a first move if they want.
As for the controlling part, i think both genders can be very controlling. It depends on personalities; if someone lets another control them, if the person is naturally needing the feeling of dominance, etc.1