So, I've been out on a couple of dates and texting with this guy and I just found out that he's a smoker. He smokes frequently throughout the day.
Is it wrong to say "no" to more dates because of this? He seems like a nice enough guy, but I really don't like smoking and I like my lungs the way they are! And if I did, what reason would I give him?
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No it is not. He made that choice to be a smoker and has to understand that most of the population (at least in most places) does not smoke.
I am currently dating a girl who smokes socially, maybe one on a night out drinking or with friends that smoke. She understands not to do that if she will be seeing me, as I have turned her down to kiss and such if she reaked of smoke. But she does not buy her own and it has not been a problem.
But ya, you should not feel bad. It is a preference, you can have preferences. And even at that, this is a pretty basic preference, right up there with gender or height.1