I messaged him yesterday and asked if he wanted to hang tonight. Several hours went by and he didn't reply, but was active on Facebook and snapchat...
Rude hey... and confusing.
Anyway I messaged before I slept: Hun look if you're busy or not keen I don't mind. I just wanted to have some fun tonight
If you're mad at me or something I'd prefer to know, otherwise I feel like an idiot messaging you. Take care
i just wanted to be honest. Like I only wanted to have fun and we were finally going to but he ignores me? It's really mean and not ok. Even just 'I'm busy sorry' would have been fine.
He hasn't read the last message I sent, but I don't know if it was the right thing to do being honest or if it was too hasty.
Most Helpful Guy
Nothing wrong with what you said.
Normally this happens to guys where some girls play a texting game which often leads to nothing happening.
The person who doesn't respond in a timely manner is being disrespectful especially since it doesn't take that long to reply to a text.
Only thing is if he was on fb asking his friends in how best to respond to you lol.
But still then your second message made it easier for him.
If you really like him you could give it another shot, but you did nothing wrong.
Could you help me on my two pls? I'm looking for some opinion as well as voting..
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Most Helpful Girl
Even if he just wanted to have sex with you and nothing else I'm not sure why he would not reply
See how he responds to that message and go from there