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No, it's not normal. If he's ten years older and still can't listen to your feelings or talk about his, ignores you after any disagreement, and "acts like a baby", then he's not ready for a relationship and there's no telling when he will be ready. Maybe in two years, maybe in ten, maybe never. He may care about you, but that's not enough to make a relationship work. He's ten years older than you but the truth is that you have already outgrown him. Find someone who matches your emotional maturity.