I met this girl last week, and yesterday we went on a date. I told her from the beginning that I'm not looking for a relationship, if it happens, it happens, but I'm more interested in just a friendship, and sex. I told her twice, so she knows, and she told me she actually wants a relationship more than just sex.
The problem is that we hit it off perfectly, I haven't connected with someone so good in years, and we ended up making out for half an hour at the park too.
My situation is that I don't know what to do, I don't know if I should sleep with other girls too, I mean, I told her what I wanted, and I told myself that I wasn't gonna get in a relationship right now.
I'm kinda confused, 'cause one part of me tells me to stick with her, but the other part tells me to don't get serious.
Please, any advice is more than welcomed.
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It's not a matter of 'should' you... You made it clear you're not looking to start a relationship or anything like that with that girl, so I think you're fine from that stand-point. Regardless, that doesn't mean you have to act on it by sleeping with someone else.
Especially since you really like this girl, so much that you're starting to think that maybe you always want a relationship with her from what it sounds like. See your guys' lines of communication are open and you were clear with what you're interested in, I don't see why you shouldn't just stay exclusive with her at the moment. That includes having sex with her, if anyone at all, cause she may be later bothered that you slept with someone else should things come teo you guys starting a relationship.1
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