So my girlfriend since 10/25/12 cheated.. I asked her why and she said these reasons
He complimented her a lot (which i do too)
He treated her how a man should (Which I did)
He was really sweet
Honestly i have no idea what to do.. She is the love of my life I can't stand the thought of losing her...
- Break upVote A
- Forgive and forgetVote B
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Read this and see if it makes sense.
50% of women will begin rejecting their partner within 5 years. It doesn't if he's a better man than ever before. It doesn't matter how much she loved him in the beginning. She's instinctively hard-wired to find someone else, once she reaches the use-by date.
He can be no better than you, or even much worse, and she'll still find him more attractive.
I've learned to only count on a use-by date of about 4 years. Even if they don't cheat, most will shut off affection and begin to make life miserable.
Not all women are like this, but it can be difficult to sort the shit from the clay. It took me about 30 years to work out how.0