I've met this guy online and all we do is play League together. Every single day for about a month straight. Just recently he started saying he likes me etc., we sent pictures back and fourth, exchanged numbers, Skype, etc. This weekend he told me he was going to be gone for a while. Ok well thats cool. We constantly text and the past two days I've literally got nothing from him. I know he's out with his friends and maybe its stupid for me to think anything. He even signed off of Skype which he never does. Found out he and his ex broke up at the beginning of the year and he was dumped... Im starting to think he still might be talking to her since he said he wasn't happy about it. Is this something I should worry about? Weve been talking about meeting up too since he lives about 3 cities over in the same state. We have SO much in common too, almost everything. Pretty lost at what im supposed to do. I want to be like "oh so you still seeing her?" but I dont want to be labeled as a psycho or ruin something. Most of the attachment started with him. I resisted until the end of the month I started to be like ok... he's cool maybe Ill just see what this is about. The second I do he vanishes. Any advice? Again I dont want to seem like the crazy one here, but he only talked to me today for about 10 mins tops, signs off again, and I haven't heard from him.
Most Helpful Guy
We can't always keep playing the same thing. There are times where we get busy and stop playing for a while and then come back later. I'm sure you know what i mean since you're a gamer as well. There were many times i stopped playing League for a goood while then i came back and started playing heavily again. Dont overthink it, just make yourself busy with another game while he comes back. One thing you might wanna think about, there is also a possibility that you might like him way more than he likes you. But you should know better than me about this
Most Helpful Girl
Oh join the League club!
I think you should talk to him straight forward. If he still talks to his ex he probably didn't get over her yet, depends how long they were together? I met my boyfriend (now ex) in League as well, we've been together for 3 years until he met another girl in League and dumped me. So, be careful, gamers can be a tricky ones because they tend to treat relationships as games. :/
What server are you on btw? And what division? :)