Dated a guy for two weeks, this weekend I spent the weekend at his place. He told me not to fall in love with him and he didn't see a future with me, he was not interested in a relationship.
I imidiatly said I agree etc etc but when I left and went home I had this sad emotion.
I deserve to be in love and loved and not used for sex. I will eventually fall for him.
So today I texted him , it was hard but I put me first and said I did some thinking and I don't think it will work for me in the long run, I think it's a lot of fun being with you and you are a great person , I hope we eventually can remain friends
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You deserve a standing ovation for standing up for yourself. It's always so much easier said than done, and you're on the right track in meeting someone you can have a very happy relationship with. When you can respect yourself, you give yourself permission to be selective... Not necessarily picky, but you won't fall for the first guy who pays attention to you.
I see so many people succumb to being unhappy because they'll choose that over being alone, but you're proof you can walk away from anything you're not completely comfortable with and not die from loneliness. If anything, you're freeing yourself up to meet a much higher quality person that treats you much better.
Good for you!0