I also think im nervous because things are going so well im scared of things not working out... Does anyonehave advice?
Most Helpful Guy
Stop being insecure, that's my advice.
The duration of time in a relationship is completely irrelevant. If you are both happy, both putting effort into the relationship, both taking caring of yourselves and each other, blah blah blah etc, then it doesn't matter if you've been dating a month, a year, or a decade.
Gauge where you're at right now. Can you improve things? Do so. Are you content? Congratulations. Is he? If so, yay.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Oh the year mark... man. I'm coming up on 4 years lol
I suppose it feels normal? I remember fighting with him around the 10-12 month mark. Apparently, according to psychologists, the year mark is when your brain is deciding if it can be with the other person long term so fighting and doubt is normal. But once you get passed that (assuming you do) it's splendid.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE