it seems like i never say the right thing to them. i've been on a dating site for months and i get messages from guys. I'll message them back, but i'll never hear from them again. Just a few minutes ago this guy said:
hey! you seem super nice and interesting and i'd love to get to know you.
I said: hi and haha thanks. so where are you from?
He read the text by the way. I didn't think I said anything strange, but now i'm starting to think that I came off weird to him. Did I say something wrong?
Most Helpful Guy
No, dating sites just suck like that. People send off (or receive) dozens of messages each day. Some girls say they wake up to over a hundred new messages. So people are either sorting through a bunch of them or sending off messages to people they aren't very interested in.
I had always thought of dating sites as something I'd eventually try, and I was excited when I started. Then nothing happened. People don't respond and aren't interested.
In your case, I wouldn't fret very much about the quality of your response, as long as you are giving them something they can continue the conversation with.0
Most Helpful Girl
I believe a lot of guys send messages to a lot a girls in hopes of getting one in return seeing as soo many don't actually reply.
You didn't say anything wrong but guys can be annoying sometimes like this. Most the time i find they usually lose interest in the site when this happens but he saw it so maybe he just couldn't be bothered? Because sometimes when i see the same old questions from guys that i'm not really interested in, i wouldn't reply but don't worry, you said nothing wrong, i wouldn't get too caught up in it.0