Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like you need to move on. He clearly either doesn't have the time, or hold you as a priority, to make time for you. Either way, he is too self-absorbed and is lacking the passion and drive to spend quality time with you face to face. This is the problem with cels and text culture, as many seem to live in this bs online world, and are losing interpersonal skills, or respect for others as actual human beings. Never mind not being present in their own lives, in the ones around them in the flesh. All the while they are looking down at some device, typing/texting their lives away, or are on facebook, etc., constantly.
Most Helpful Girl
Let him take as long as he needs. But, very subtly let him know you won't be waiting that long. When we date, we are evaluating each person and some take longer than others. But as the woman you have to remember you are the prize. Its his job to win you over. So let him take as long as he wants and you get busy on other things. For example, next time you talk with him tell him your girlfriend wants to go to the movie on Friday . Then say, "but I told her I meet this really great guy, so I would have to get back with her." That's it. Its out there. Now he might come back and say, "oh you should go." Or, he might say, "would you like to go out with me." Either way is good. But now he knows what you want.