Most Helpful Girl
I'm leafing if:
at a bar- I'm just not attracted to him, he's being too overtly sexual, pushy, or is talking to me like it's an interview i. e. asking too many questions about me without offering any information about himself/ giving me a chance to ask him anything.
dating a few weeks- if he's trying to rush things, everything has to be on his terms, he sleeps with someone else after we've slept together, if I he doesn't make a plan to see me at least twice a week (unless he's genuinely got a lot on that he's told me about), there's no contact for 3 days (I'm assuming there's not enough interest), if I see he's read a message on whatsapp and doesn't respond the same day without providing a reason (again I'll assume he's not interested).
basically if he's too possessive, cheats, dramatic, hung up on an ex, selfish, doesn't seem interested, or has some deal breaking character flaw e. g. crazy, boundary issues, drug issues.