The problem is my loyalty is more to him. I've known him longer than she's known him. We dated, I ended it. I regret it. I've never met her, and he and I are friends.
I worry that if I tell her, since I'm not a random girl, she'll think I'm just trying to break them up.
I'm torn also because I've been cheated on. On one hand, I wouldn't want to stay with someone who cheated on me, but sometimes I wish I didn't know. Like if they're headed down that path, maybe she wouldn't need to know.
Would you tell her?
Most Helpful Guy
I think you should tell her then not talk to either of them again. I would want to know if my girlfriend cheated on me0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should. I would want to know if my boyfriend was cheating on me...0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE