I have so man questions when it comes to dating. Yesterday I asked a female collegue the same question I had posted here. She was kind enough to show me her inbox on a dating website.
What I saw far exceeded my expectation. She had about 150 likes and 40 emails in 2 days time. Most of these emails contained nothing more than “Hey baby” or “Wow you're pretty. Wanna get a a cup of coffee?”. My colleague is pretty but not extraordinary. And as far as I know in real life she does not get approached that much.
If I had that much attention I would probably stop reading those emails. I myself write plenty of information about myself. However when a girl gets so much likes and emails how is a not good looking guy like me catch attention on a dating website? And am I right to assume that girls do not read all those messages because they are just too many?
Most Helpful Girl
They read them all, but they don't respond to all of them.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
Most women on those websites are really hilariously shallow if you don't look like a model or have a career with a place of your own then you're sht outta luck2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE