I am dating a guy, 26, with a baby boy who is 3. We've been together for about 3 months now and I have spent time with his son for a good percentage of the times we are together. I do my best to include him in the things we do but I know that his father wants to do our 1 on 1 dates occassionally too when the child is with his mother. I don't have much experience with little children. I worked in the churches childrens ministry with 4-6 year olds and I did birthday parties for 7-13 year olds... This is different though. It is hard at times because his son is terrirtorial with his dad in a sense and while we have our great times together, there are times where I am just like, "I have no idea what I am doing.". lol I'm not trying to play a mothers role so that thought isn't meant in that sense but I don't know. I want to be more comfortable I guess.
Most Helpful Guy
Become the kid's best friend. That's the most beneficial for all of you.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Play the babysitter role. Try to make him laugh and when he's around engage in his play.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE