But, my big problem is she won't communicate with me. All she does is say im selfish, im out for myself, im no better than than the other guys and im mannipulative? I do actually care about her and she refuses to see that. She says all this stuff and labels me all these things, but gives me absolutely no explaination why she feels that way. I try to sit down and talk to her nicely and tell her how I feel and she's completely closed lips. Or she's like figure it out. Well how can I figure it out, if I have no clue what is making her feel this way? Or something im doing or acting unintentially that is bothering her. So, ladies if your mad at a guy or unhappy about how things are going, why don't you speak about it? Im willing to hear whatever she has to say and be better and understanding. I can't change myself but I can change how I act. Cause really giving up is something I don't like doing and is always a last ditch option for me.
Most Helpful Girl
I see your frustration. And honestly, if she doesn't want to be open and communicate right now, she won't. You have to respect her and give her that space. But from reading this, you deserve better. You seem to be the only one putting in any effort at this point and that's not fair to you. There are plenty of girls out there who would appreciate your generosity and willingness to make a relationship work. Don't settle. Good luck!
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Most Helpful Guy
This woman is wasting your time. It's the same cycle over and over, but you keep going back to her, hoping things will be different. It ain't gonna happen. You're obviously into her way more than she's into you. Winners don't give up on finding the right person, but they're also smart enough to walk away from the wrong person.