last few weeks i've been on dates with a girl, last one we held hands after beer, but the last coffee date we didn't. I was going to hug her but froze, probably because i didn't have any dutch courage. However after it i felt bad and texted to say i froze and i was really sorry and she understood. next week we'll have another proper drinks date, but today i organised another coffee one, this time i surprised her with a hug, her reaction was 'oh ok' and she hugged me too. I then said good bye and went on. I texted her to say i'm sorry i thought i rushed off to quickly and she said she didn't notice. Was i correct to hug this time? i think i was, as i felt i needed to show i could leave my comfort zone and also to show i do care.
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I really like hugs among other things. I may be more... cuddly than most people.. I'm not sure. But since you've been on dates before and you've known her for a while I don't consider it a rushed action. Sooner or later you would need to walk past your comfort zone so I think you did a good job!! :)1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE