Most Helpful Guy
He probably really likes you and doesn't want to mess things up. You're likely a hard person to read (ie if you're into him).
Most Helpful Girl
he's trying to not be seen as "needy" but its clear he's giving you signs he like you.
too vague to assess. but in general us Gentleman take things slower than your typical horndog on Tinder.
If you build something fast, it won't last long. if you build something slower, it'll last much longer.
Well, here's how *I* see it at least:
The guy needs some time to think, OR he has a shitty job that allows him only weekends off. Either way, he's being somewhat tactical about not wanting to lose you.
The fact you've said he's being a gentleman and makes a lot of effort to make you feel good, likely means he:
1) Indeed likes you and enjoys your current state of relationship, but is afraid to move to the next level because... whatever the hell is sitting in his head...
2) Shitty job, shitty timing.
3) Being tactical and is attempting to find the best time to take it to the next level.
When I was with my ex, if someone looked at MY date plans, they would accuse me of being lux luthor's son or something!
maybe he isn't sure you feel the same, and doesn't wana get hurt incase you dont respond with the same feelings as him
Because coming strong usually sends women running for the hills.
And time between dates allows them to be special - no guy can take a girl to Paris three times a week (unless they both live there :-D).
He likes it just the way it is, and sees no point in changing a winning recipe.
After all 'commitment' is an imposed social construct that he just might not be ready for.
He has a keen self-protection mechanism that stops him from taking it further, and needs to be absolutely 1000% sure what he's getting himself into.
Especially if he's a successful and somewhat wealthy guy.
Because let's be honest... there are a substantial amnount of women out there that puts wealth and status higher than the guy they're actually with.
coz they r afraid that they might lose u if they do basically...;-)
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