I've been seeing someone for 5 months now and I invited him to spend the weekend at the beach with my family and I next month and he said he'll think about it. Well I mentioned it again today and he said that he doesn't want to give the wrong impression of us and when I asked what he meant he said, "just the way you talk about us sometimes... i don't like it when you're clingy".
I haven't done anything that is clingy, if anything I've been very patient with him. I want us to take the next step and become official because its been 5 months for goodness sake but he's having issues. He said to me about 3 months ago "I'm not looking for a relationship but I still wanna see you" what does that mean? Is he and I friends with benefits? He gets jealous when I talk to other guys and when others take an interest in me but he himself doesn't seem to be interested in me.
am I being clingy? I'm tempted to just break up with him, honestly.
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Sounds to me that he wants a friends with benefits . I don't think you're being clingy--I think he wants his cake and to eat it too.
He wants you on HIS terms. Don't stay with a guy if he is not going to give you what you want.1