I had a second date with this guy. The first date went great. We had so much in common and talked for hours at a coffee shop until it closed. On our second date he was quite touchy feely and told me he found me super attractive and tried to kiss me several times but I kept backing away. I did tell him that I found him attractive but that I don't kiss early on when I'm dating. As he was walking me back to my car he was quiet and really distant and didn't even hug me goodbye..
He's told me that he's not looking for random hookups but at the same time he said that he's not looking for a relationship.
What does that even mean? Why did he want to hang out with me if he doesn't want a relationship or to hookup?
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It most likely means that he really wants to take things slow. Basically a relationship without the label or the pressure to move in together. Just tell him you understand how he feels but ask him to clarify one thing. Weather or not he wants to see other people. I'm guessing you don't want to so if he asks you what you want be honest. If he says no he isn't going to he wants to take things slow (no labels) if he says yes he wants what is known as a Friends With Benefits (fwb) type relationship.0