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I'm older than your target opinions, but heck no.
My child is my responsibility. She has a father. I take care of her in every way and don't expect anyone else to do it.
In fact, she doesn't even know I date. I have been seeing someone for four months and he has never met her.
The only down side for you will be that the girl may not be available all the time. Actually for me and my guy, the time apart is perfect for our relationship.