Guys, I need advice please! Is he just after sex?
What Guys Said 10
Long story short? It's not you, it's him. He's insecure and aggressive about it, and likely wants to prove he's "still got it" even though his previous SO dumped him/cheated on him/whatever happened. Oh, and he's also not over her yet. Give him time to figure himself out, help him along the way, and see if that goes over well. (I'm assuming you like him a lot from how you write).0
I saw this question before.
So you're kiki_kaylee? Maybe someone else.
Internet dating isn't exactly what you think it is.
It's just a quicker form of sex that was invented by desperate men.
When you get into websites like those, that attracts men that want only one or two things from you. Relationships now a days aren't as real as they were many years ago. It as come to the point where most of us only desire sex.1
Most of the time, you have something the guy wants. Otherwise he wouldn't even talk to you.
Most of us guys would tweak themselves to your likings in order to get whatever they want from you. Whatever you're saying is "blah blah blah" to them.
Online dating is just another way to speed up your sex life, and out of the life of loneliness. It's better to know the person personally rather than seeking a random someone who's desperate for pleasure.1
Because he feels rejected, emotionally messed up people need some kind of assurance from new interests that their interested u pulled away from all his advances which in his mind means your not interested in him other than friends0
Just tell him that you are not interested in casual and you made that clear. Also ask what his intentions are. He may just be after the sex or quite possibly to use you as a rebound.0
Good job. U did the right thing 👌🏼 its too early to go in for the kill anywayz. Silly people lel0
This guy makes all the douchebag moves. I'd stay clear of him.0
There is also the possibility that he's still recovering from the pain experienced in his earlier relationships which has left him seeking the warmth of a woman's touch. If his pride was hurt, then he's probably too frightened to "be himself", and wait for the right moment to move in for that kiss: when it's reciprocated.
Tell him that you need depth in your relationships, so if you're going to get physically intimate, you'd have to get emotionally intimate, first. Get him to talk about his past relationships and try to figure out what went wrong with him, and how it's affecting him. See if you can help him.0
He doesn't know whare he stands with you. But if he keeps on being like that then he is not a keeper0
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