I recently started talking to a guy who is 20 years older than me (I'm 24 and he's 44). I met him at my job (I work at a school) and I've known his son for a few years. He recently told me that he liked me and he told me that his son knew about him liking me. We've only hung out three times so far; we've been talking since the end of march.
This past week he asked me to have dinner with him and his son on Wednesday. Long story short something came up and he asked if we could do dinner early Friday . I texted him Thursday night to see if we were still hanging out on Friday , and he didn't respond. I haven't heard from him since Wednesday (thats 5 days now). What should I do? Is he playing games? Should I move on?
Most Helpful Guy
ummm, does sound odd indeed being 45 myself, perhaps he got some feedback from the son? could he being playing you against someone else? it could be nothing... i would not chase though, if he is keen he will make contact and contacting him may appear desperate. I would stay though texting isn't always reliable, perhaps it didn't arrive or read by someone else?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should let him contact you for the time being, do not contact him!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE