I usually wouldn't mind, but it's the fact that he told me after he ordered his pricey meal. My mom said I shouldn't mind, because he's just a friend.. so I shouldn't expect to much out of him. But my brother said, that if he was the one to initiate the date, then he should pay for it.. or at least most of it. So I don't know, am I being to up tight about it? I've honestly only paid for a date once, but the guy wanted to pay me back after he went to the bank. And all of my other dates were mad when I offered, so I don't push them either.
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Wow, that was really cheap of him.
So he can barely afford to pay for gas to come get you, but then orders steak and lobster at dinner? Sounds like a guy with pretty expensive tastes for being so broke. I'd be pissed to be honest with you. He asked you on a date, so at the very least you should've just paid for yourselves (go dutch). But for him to ask you to pay for the entire meal after he orders the most expensive thing on it? Sounds like a huge mooch.
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