I started dating my boyfriend when I was 20 (just friends at 19). At the time he was 40. We're still together, he's met everyone in my family. They are ok with it. Curious how you would perceive their relationship?
If a 20 year old girl was dating a 40 year old man what would you think about them?
What Guys Said 9
As they say love comes in all shapes and sizes and ages too. Definitely you will attract attention but that's no need for it to come between you'll. Follow happiness and love, your best guide in life. Just think carefully about all things in the relationship (like with all) between the two of you like kids and what you guys want to do.0
I wouldn't be anti age difference relationships per se but I find them curious - I was in a 10 year gap relationship and it turned into a disaster.0
Its a bit weird but if they are happy, I wouldn't think bad of them0
"they like each other"
this basically 8)1
The 40 year old is a rock star, or a drug kingpin, or Bill Clinton 20 years ago0
I'd be jealous0
I don't have a problem with the age gap as both are consenting adults. But isn't it hard to be with someone whom grew up in another generation than you?0
That is a very abnormal and awkward, i can't see why some men would go for such young girls.0
Meh. Amateur age difference.0
What Girls Said 6
At 20, I'm still very silly and possibly childish :3 so I couldn't do it and my friends and family would probably think he's just into young people.
But if you're mature... people should view it differently.
At the end of the day, if two adults want to be together-just let them be together and no judging.1
I mean I'd never do that but you do you0
Hey, if it works, it works. I once dated a guy who was 14 years older than me. I loved him. I hope it all works out for you0
If you're both 18+ and are out of high school I don't see the issue since you're both legal adults.0
I don't really care. Not an issue, age doesn't matter ^^0
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