I seem to have a hard time dating. I barely ever get dates. I'm not sure why or what I'm doing wrong. Guys just don't seem to be into me. Guys never approach me either. I see some looking my way sometimes but they will never say anything. Sometimes I wonder if I'm ugly or something or if something is wrong with me. It seems like no guy wants to date me let alone get to know me. I'm a really nice, sweet, caring, strong, fun and smart person. And I look like the lady in the picture that I posted. Except, most of the time I wear my hair in it's natural curly state and my lips are a little bit bigger. I posted a picture because someone might ask what I look like. Maybe my appearance is not good?
But no one seems to want to come close to me to see those things. Sometimes it does make me upset or sad because I feel like I may be alone my whole life. ... I know you should never compare yourself to the lives of others but I see others happy and in relationships but I feel like I may never have that. I'm never jealous, I think its a beautiful thing. I guess I admire it because I crave love, true love. Maybe it's something that I'm doing wrong. Are there any tips to meet men and finding a boyfriend? Maybe it just isn't my time yet...
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If that's your real picture, you are far from ugly. In fact, I think you're very pretty. I think you're looking at it wrong. If anything, guys aren't coming up to you because they are intimidated by your good looks, telling themselves you are out of their league.
You're young, and as people mature, they begin taking more chances by opening up, so I don't believe it will be long before someone befriends you and wants to date you.
There's also nothing wrong with you going up to someone you're interested in and saying "hello". Just be yourself, be genuine and smile. What's not to like about that
Also, you have a long life yet to live, so don't worry about having to be with somebody right now. Enjoy yourself and stop concerning yourself with what you don't have and feel grateful of what you are blessed with. You are good looking, are in good health and seem to be a very nice person. A lot of men will love that quality about you, so stop worrying and just let it happen.
You'll be fine, I promise.1