Have you found this?
Has this worked for you or have you felt like you wanted the other person more when they distanced themselves
E. g. not responding to the other persons messages/ calls straight away
- Worked FOR me
- Worked ON me
- Failed FOR me
- Pushed me away
- Never experienced this but believe there is truth to the theory
- This doesn't work
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don't play games. be busy enough as an individual that you get forced to pass some time without each other working, both of you.
and it doesn't need to be one complete day two days a week. some hours some periods in the day is enough. if you really love each other you want to be together all the time ideally. you don't ever need to get distanced from each other to get attracted to each other. and those some hours of not being together help you to keep doing your own works and interests and also help you to be more excited when you sit together to have dinner. when you go to bed together.
But with distancing yourself on purpose being in a relationship or not, or in other words playing games, nothing will get better in a straight way, but it can get worse too.
even if he comes after you after you distanced yourself it is not done in a good way and he will not forget it, also it shows that he's either just too obsessed with you which isn't a good thing or have found what you're doing and is just playing a role to please you.
all said above is not good because it is not honest.
and like I said it won't be always good. It can just end the whole relationship between you and tear it apart very fast.
So hear me, don't do it.
and don't ever want to buy or attract anyone's love. if someone is into you he's into you. if he's not, he's not. respect it if he is forget it if he's not.
if you want to see someone is attracted enough ask him in honesty. and expect honesty too. be straightforward. if you are not satisfied with how much attention someone you like gives you tell him straightforward. tell him I like you and you like me and this love and attention you're giving me isn't enough for me. I expect more attention and care from you.
very simple. don't make things complicated. love is easy if you are honest.