Most Helpful Guy
What you see as attention and respect, is the guys tolerating their nonsense to try and get some ass.
There's plenty of pussified dudes that are willing to be that girls bitch in exchange for potential pussy.
Most Helpful Girl
I don't know. They don't have the respect of men, though. Maybe the attention, but definitely not respect. I'm not bitchy (mostly, haha), and I'm not high maintenance at all. I don't wear make-up and I dress down a lot, but I still know how to put myself together when I feel like it. Alas, it's really hard to find a guy. I know a lot of guys and some girls that have or HAD crushes on me at one point in time. I know of two or three people that do now, but there is always something that keeps us from dating.
The guy I like now? His girlfriend is a bitch and I have many other people that can confirm that and she treats him pretty crappy. He likes me back and I know that he cares about me a lot, but he's been with her for 2 years and isn't ready to let her go. :/ My friends don't understand why he's with her. Their opinion isn't biased just because they are my friends though. My friends are brutally honest and they won't take my side just because they are my friend so I know that I'm not the only one that truly feels that she's mean. It sucks, but what can you do about it? :/