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I've been there. I went on a dating website but I was ready to move on. You have to get over what she did to you bc you can't bring that baggage into a new relationship and expect it to be an healthy relationship. It's nothing you did. She should have had enough respect to break it off and be an adult instead of cheat. That goes to show what her morals are. Not yours. Do not blame yourself or wonder why. You will never get the answer and even if she tries to explain or say she made a mistake it won't matter. You won't trust what she says. So move on and show her she won't hold you back. Start having confidence in yourself but tomorrow is never promised. It's been two years if you haven't healed from it yet maybe look into counseling. I went to that and it helped me a lot. I started to forgive myself for what happened bc I realized it wasn't my fault and there was nothing I could do to change it. A cheater is a cheater. That's something with in that person.