I feel a bit dumb taking out my purse when we both know he's going to pay either way (I wouldn't mind if he accepted fyi), but I feel disrespectful if I don't even reach for the cheque or take out my purse to offer.
I dated a guy like this before and after a while I just said thanks after, but we were together for 4 years and occasionally I organised things for us both too.
What's the common etiquette in this? And what do guys perfer?
Most Helpful Guy
I always pay, but its nice to have them offer. Its annoying when they assume I'll pay for everything
Most Helpful Girl
Just say thanks!