So I started talking to this guy and he asked me out. The problem is I don't find him attractive but I've only meet him once for a few mins but we have been texting a lot and he really seems nice and he does make me laugh. So should I give him a chance? Do you think you have to be instantly attracted to someone?
Most Helpful Guy
nothing wrong with giving someone a chance! I have done that before.
maybe when you start talking in person the attraction will occur.
if it doesn't though you need to be clear with him that you like him but are not romantically interested0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Nope, nope, and nope. I mean I fall in love with a guy if he's super nice, charming, and funny. The being attractive thing is a bonus! Obviously, it might be kind of easier to fall in love with a guy or be charmed by them if they're hot. But i'd give him a chance for sure. Anyways, the better the personality, the more attractive he will become to you. So ya, give him a chance for sure :) He will make you way more happy than some hot guy with a shit personality. You can't find the perfect man anyways!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE