I'm bout to be 16 soon and I'm obviously not going to date someone way older like 30 or anything like that but I don't know why I seem to be attracted to older guys. I just think there is something much more attractive seeing a guy with his life together and doing what he is doing to reach his goal. Now boys my age can be like that too which is why I still like boys within my age group so I am not really excluding them hell.. I even favor dating them because it will be easier instead explaining to people why my boyfriend is 20 years old without them thinking I am just some helpless child who is dating a child predator taking advantage of me. I am actually very mature for my age and I am very on point on telling when people are lying or trying pull one over me so I don't think I can be tricked by some 22 year old because I know some of them like to prey on girls my age for sex and shit like that but I am just way too smart for that to happen but hey I never know but any guy I date can fuck me over so... there's that. If
I personally don't see the problem with me dating some who is 20 or below but...
what is your opinion on the topic?
Most Helpful Guy
doubt most guys who r 30+ would feel da same about a 16 yo gal :-|0
Most Helpful Girl
I see nothing wrong with dating an older guy. I myself am more attracted to older guys who have their lives together but I am 18 so dating a 20 year old isn't too much of a difference. I would tell you to be confident and make sure that an older guy isn't taking advantage of you. Some men do date younger girls because they feel they can control them, so watch for that.0