Most Helpful Girl
An average guy who's confident, has a good personality, and a decent job will do alright dating.
I wonder if you realize, but this looks thing is the same for girls, except kinda worse, because no money, charisma, status, personality, or anything else makes up for a lack of looks. If a guy doesn't find you physically attractive, you're out of luck. He won't even bother trying to get through some door with you.
You guys should be happier that you have all these other qualities women look for that can compensate for each other and add points in the dating game. For women, everything else is peripheral to looks. You can be the nicest, sweetest woman on earth, with a good job, whatever, and guys still won't be into you if you're not physically appealing.