In the last 7 month i had 2 relationships with men who left me.
First one left me after 2 month, even before our first sex. He was sweet but a little dominant with me, when we agreed to meet in my house to spend weekend and have sexy time, he never came. he deleted all my contacts and even blocked me in social media. no idea what happened.
Im not clingy at all, so i tried to forget it.
The second one broke my heard last week. Im still in love with him. we were together for nearly 5 months.
It was perfect, we were bonding he actually helped me to feel better after first guy being an asshole to me. he was everything. He understands me, he said he loved me. He's one of those with whom you can talk whole night or have sex whole night. We were planing to spend summer holidays. And suddenly he stopped to anwer my calls, blocked my fb. I dont understand what's going on.
I don't want to go to his house and talk or whatever, its so creepy to do that.
Oh and im not sleeping around or have friends with benefits. I take all relationships serious (just in case)
Most Helpful Guy
It almost sounds like they are discovering something about you that completely changes the way that they feel, like if a guy started looking online and found out hat his girlfriend had previously been arrested for child abuse or prostitution. What do you think is happening? Is there anyone who might be spreading bad information about you?1
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Most Helpful Girl
Some of us seem to attract the broken ones. I have the same problem as you. I just recently went through the same thing. I tend to ignore or gloss over the red flags. I fell hard for this guy. He had problems, he was an alcoholic, abused as a child, he can't love anyone. He seemed perfect, said all the right things, but moved very fast. As soon as I started to feel the same way, he changed, and ran. Broken commitment phobes seem to be everywhere.0