I met him online, we'd been talking for a month, and we finally met a couple days ago. It was a quick visit in between work for both of us, but it was pretty awesome.
We met for drinks yesterday, and that's when I found out that when he drinks, he smokes. I've always had a problem with cigarettes and smokers in general, and I find it kind of a turn-off. Plus the smoke just really bothers me. Makes my throat hurt and stuff.
I still really like him, cause he's a pretty great guy (so far), but this smoking thing... I dunno.
I'm not the type of person who's at all interested in telling someone else what to do, but man. This is pretty disappointing.
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When I smoked; if a girl had a problem with it I considered it her problem, deal with my life choice or find someone else. The trouble is that it's you condemning someone else based on your own moral standards sort of thing, obviously a smoker doesn't feel the same way you do and it's irritating to be judged. A relationship is so much more than a cigarette and deciding not to date someone based on that is pretty short sighted. I gave up in the end but I would date a girl if she smoked, it's up to her. If I had a problem I'd find a non-smoker, simple.0
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