The problem is I'm in love with one of them, whom feels not interessted in me. so I started dating other guys to feel equilibrated. And I feel like if I let go one of them I'll lose the equilbrium.
so here it is, one of them is in the military army ( I only see him once a week, sometimes I spend a month ) and I'm so attached to this person even if he is far from me ( we usually talk on the phone and it is enough for me )
so to fill up this emptiness, I started dating other persons and hang out with them when the one I appeciate or love is deployed
Does this make me a bit of a bitch? XD
Most Helpful Guy
I hate the word "bitch". I'd say it makes you messed up, untrustworthy, and that you need to find an equilibrium within yourself, rather than with other people. You are a fully functional human being by yourself; no need to be a parasite.
Word of advice: Stop dating. Once you can confidently state who you are based upon your own experiences and choices -and not upon the relationships you share with other people- once you can do that, you WILL be able to figure out what, and whom, you want to be with. Guaranteed. :)
Most Helpful Girl
If it's casually dating, and you said your army guy doesn't seem as interested, then no I don't think you're being a bitch. Why pour all of your energy and affectionate into one man who doesn't reciprocate? You'll feel emotionally drained, and maybe physically. It can mess you up (this has happened to me).