Oh i know he has children and no longer with his wife. I'm 23 and he's 53
Most Helpful Guy
I would hazard a guess that he's been on his own for some time, as you have said you've been seeing him on and off for three years. After this amount of time being on his own, it must be very difficult for a guy of his age to establish a new relationship. He has got used to doing his "own thing" for quite a while. He probably doesn't really know what he wants, so you have little chance of knowing either. if nothing much has happened in three years, it is unlikely to change in the future. Unless you are very lucky!
Only you can decide if you want to stick around and wait, but I think you could be on a road to nowhere.
Most Helpful Girl
Forget about him, maybe on and off works well for a 53 year old divorced man, but at 23 i don't think that's what you would want/need