Most Helpful Girl
First of all, i will say that every person has right to like or dislike who they want, but making fun of someone else should never be done. As far as cutting, someone who cuts will always look for a reason to cut. They also cut for different reasons. Some cut for attention and to get their way. Some cut because they can't handle the internal pain. Some cut because it's the only way they feel control over what happens to them. There are many reasons. You cannot let someone who cuts for manipulative purposes control YOU. It is something THEY have to work on. If you give in to a cutter, they will see that it works and will continue to do it for every other situation that they can't control and you will be unhappy and lose control over yourself. That person needs psychological help. I know a few teens who cut. One does so in order to get her way and get attention. Another does so because she has a medical illness and feels like she has no control over her own body. The one who does it for attention and to get her way, makes it known what she does. She makes threats that if something doesn't happen, she will cut herself. She knows that her parents and others will give in. The one with the medical illness can't handle what she goes through every day. She has needles being poked in her body every day. She is told what she can and can't eat or do. After so many years, she needed to find some kind of control over her body and life. That's when she started cutting. She also needs psychological help, but in a different way.