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No, it's not. There are plenty of guys out there, myself included, who consider that to be one of the more important priorities in life. It's just the the US/EU has evolved into a fuck first get to know latter society. Add that to a fairly young age where the average male isn't necessarily interested in marriage or any woman who wants it, and it gets a lot harder.
And yeah, you normally have to hack your way through a brier patch of hoebags and douchbags before you find the right one.