Is it ok to message/facebook an old fling after not talking for 2 years?

There is this guy that I have been on a few dates between 2011 and 2013. We didn't speak since then. We made out, went to third base even, but we never had sex. We have each other on facebook since October. He is still single.

I was just wondering if it is okay to message him on facebook to ask him how he's doing? It's just because I'm curious on what he's doing now.
  • Yes, you can
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  • Yes, but don't ask him directly how he is
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  • No, talking to an old fling is a big no no
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  • Of course its okay. You're both single, correct? And you have history. There is absolutely nothing wrong with keeping in touch with someone from your past, especially if you are both single and if you guys left it on good terms. I would get ahold of him.


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