So I recently broke up with my boyfriend that I was dating for 8 years and we have a 3 year old together. I'm 24. I don't do the club scene or bar scene but my friend insisted we had a girls night.
So we ended up going to a bar and I just wanted to get drunk and dance. So we were tipsy and she said my boyfriend is coming with a friend I hope you don't mind. (Which I did)
Her boyfriend shows up with the friend and she introduces them to me. So I'm tipsy and I talk to them like if I had known them forever. I wasn't shy which I usually am super shy and not confident but that night I just didn't care and wasn't looking into impressing anyone I was so dressed down too I wasn't feeling myself.
But then me and the friend started talking and dancing and by the end of the night I was wasted in the back of the bar giving him head and he totally finished in me. Which was so not me to do something like that I never even let my ex do that.
We went to eat after and he was holding my hand putting his arm around me feeding me food.
I haven't dated since I was 15. I haven't done bars or hooking up or anything. I feel horrible for what I did. The guy texted me the next day asking how I was and we been texting non stop for the past 3 days that we have met. No securing no flirting. Just nice conversations.
So do you think that he thinks I'm a slut? I haven't told him about my ex I did mention I have a son. Is that a turn off? If we are texting should I ask when we r seeing each other again? Or should I wait for him?
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Personally i think his friend crossed a line with your ex so your ex probably will never want u. Watch out for the friend he might only be after sex. As for the single mother a lot of playas will see u now as an easy lay, an easy target, a sure thing at the end of the night because she's happy to getting anything. It was first night being back out there and an excess of alcohol makes us do stupid things, the blowjob was ill advised but doesn't make u a slapper. Take your time if this new guy likes you he will move heaven and earth to be with u.1