So I recently broke up with my boyfriend that I was dating for 8 years and we have a 3 year old together. I'm 24. I don't do the club scene or bar scene but my friend insisted we had a girls night.
So we ended up going to a bar and I just wanted to get drunk and dance. So we were tipsy and she said my boyfriend is coming with a friend I hope you don't mind. (Which I did)
Her boyfriend shows up with the friend and she introduces them to me. So I'm tipsy and I talk to them like if I had known them forever. I wasn't shy which I usually am super shy and not confident but that night I just didn't care and wasn't looking into impressing anyone I was so dressed down too I wasn't feeling myself.
But then me and the friend started talking and dancing and by the end of the night I was wasted in the back of the bar giving him head and he totally finished in me. Which was so not me to do something like that I never even let my ex do that.
We went to eat after and he was holding my hand putting his arm around me feeding me food.
I haven't dated since I was 15. I haven't done bars or hooking up or anything. I feel horrible for what I did. The guy texted me the next day asking how I was and we been texting non stop for the past 3 days that we have met. No securing no flirting. Just nice conversations.
So do you think that he thinks I'm a slut? I haven't told him about my ex I did mention I have a son. Is that a turn off? If we are texting should I ask when we r seeing each other again? Or should I wait for him?
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If you were honest with me and just told me what was happening that night, I would totally understand that is out of character and you were just blowing off some steam because of your new freedom. I would not look down on you or think you were slutty. I would want to get to know you better.1